This post marks the time Angie and I leave the continent that has been our home for the past two and a half years. It is a time of mixed emotions, as we leave those things that have become comfortable, even like home..
We have lived and traveled in extraordinary places. We have made good friends and formed lifelong memories. We have built a home. Futhermore, We have gained insights into ourselves and the greater world.
We have learned:
– There are no easy solutions to the world’s social problems. Anyone who thinks they have the answer hasn’t glimpsed the complex web of cause and effect. The longer we are in Africa, the less clear things become.
– There are good people and bad people everywhere you go. We have been happily surprised to find kind, generous, and welcoming people in every place we have travelled. We have not been surprised to find rude ones.
– Cultures vary widely, but children everywhere are basically the same. Sometimes cute, sometimes obnoxious, they usually just want your attention. If you give it to them, you will have a loyal friend.
– Living without electricity and running water is not difficult. It is nothing compared to living in a bewildering culture.
– Rice is a habit-forming substance. Two days without it will put you in withdrawal!
Right now we are traveling and having a great time. And while we are seeing fun and interesting places, we find ourselves caught between two worlds, worlds in which we are heavily invested and yet helpless. As for Liberia, we can only watch the news reports and get information from infrequent phone calls and emails. At home in the States, we hear the updates from friends and family, but here again we are just observers. We are unable to make a significant impact with those we care about.
We leave Africa with a sense of sorrow as we depart from our beloved friends and our second home. We feel particular grief to be leaving at this time, when the Ebola crisis in Liberia is worsening. It feels as if we are leaving our people behind – people who did so much for us and loved us like their own. It is true that we completed our contract and left Liberia according to our original schedule, but that doesn’t change the feeling of abandonment. It is not clear what we could do to help, but it is hard knowing that our struggle is over and theirs continues.
Last week we learned that one of our students, a young man who just graduated in June, died from the Ebola virus. Suddenly the crisis has become much more real for us. We feel great sadness at what he went through, and we fear for who might be next. The people of Liberia and West Africa are in our thoughts and prayers. Please keep them in yours.
Even though we are sad to leave, we are filled with gratitude. We were treated like family in Liberia and we received so much from its people. We miss them already. We are likewise grateful to our friends and family and blog readers who have stayed in close contact with us. They were, and continue to be, a lifeline in trying times. The Peace Corps staff in Liberia also has done brilliantly for us. We have had a incredibly fulfilling experience thanks to the continuous support we have received.
On our travels across the continent we had countless experiences, from grand adventures to the tiniest moments. At every turn, we encountered kind and generous people. Africa welcomed us, embraced us, and cared for us. It gave so much to us. For now, all we can offer in return is our sincerest thanks.
Thank you, Peace Corps. Thank you, friends and family. Thank you, Liberia.
Thank you, Africa.